ABC for Lovemaking with Continence

TO BE SHARED BY BOTH LOVERS
SECRETS USEFUL TO MEN, SECRETS WE TOO WANT TO KNOW

Here you can find out what our lovers think, what they want, what exactly turns them into rapturous lovers.  Do you want to have a better communication with the male universe? You can communicate with it only if you can understand it. You can understand it only if you get to know it. This is a world craving for you, this is a world that awaits you, and this is an inviting world. Welcome aboard!

The ABC of Lovemaking with Sexual Continence
We shouldn’t mince our words when it comes to that: during lovemaking with the compete suspension of ejaculation; it is the man that bears the brunt of it all.  It is just as natural for a woman to turn her orgasm inwardly, and suspend the discharge of sexual potential. Anyhow, she too may find useful the techniques we’re about to spin the yarn for. The man will have to make a greater effort, and it is crucial that his lover supports him. How? By not allowing to let herself get carried away with the voluptuousness of excitation towards its peak. By being extremely careful with the turns her lover is about to take, whenever he is nearing orgasm.

Visualize the ascending energy
Is the man an apprentice learning the ropes of sexual continence? He will be able to retain his seminal fluid only if his lover times up her stops and slow-downs with his. When the man withdraws his penis a little, to quell his excitation, his lover must see with her mind’s eye the energy flux ascending along the spine, up until the top of his head. She should trigger a similar process in her own body, at once imagining and feeling a cool wave in his genital organs. If she wants to avoid the man’s ejaculation, the woman must give him a 2-3 minute-break, and man’s excitation is sure to cool down.  Then the couple may resume their embrace to the passionate rhythm they want for themselves.

Identify the Signs of Pre-Ejaculation
And speaking of that…you want to be the complete master of your sexuality’s ebb and flow? To keep the energy in check you need to spot out the mechanism of male ejaculation straight away. Here are a few signs of pre-ejaculation: when the man didn’t touch the point of no-return as yet, and he can still be in the control: stronger and speedier movements; shrills or twinges all over the man’s body; because of the muscular tension, the scrotum hardens and creases, at the same time contracting at the root of the penis: the man’s body becomes tense, being on the verge of reaching orgasm.

Stop right on time
Now you are fully aware of what’s going to happen. Do you know what you have to do? The method is as simple as it is terrific; it is called the scrotal jerk. Since the testicles usually get closer to the body for the sperm to gush out, keeping them away from the body can delay ejaculation. Now, with your right hand, grab your penis and hold it in vertical position. Then circle the upper part of the scrotum with your left hand thumb and index. Pull downwards strongly.
Her is another useful gesture, known as ashwini mudra in Yoga – you should contract your anal sphincter as often as possible, being aware of the way the vital energy gathers up in your body.  Do that as often as you can throughout the day, and make sure you keep the contraction of the anal sphincter as long as possible. Wait until you see how useful this technique is when you make love! When pleasure intensifies, make sure you withdraw cautiously, at about 2-3 centimeters from the vagina and forcibly contract the anal sphincter, holding your breath after having exhaled completely. That will help you prevent the sperm from sliding down outside the gate. But remember! If you want to control your ejaculation, you need to stop before excitation reaches an almost uncontrollable point. The signs of pre-ejaculation are like the yellow traffic light. They provide a timely warning, so please make the most of what you learned and put it to good use… All you need to do is persevere in your effort!

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