Tantric spirituality declares: the orgasm without seminal discharge is a true spiritual trampoline that propels us into the higher dimensions of the Manifestation. The profane adds to that: Ordinary orgasm is also a gate to a sublime paradisiac garden, but… you open it, and it’s slammed back shut in your face. You get a tiny glimpse of the riches behind it, but you only manage to reap… peanuts.
The moment of amorous ecstasy is so short that it almost hurts. You would be grateful if you could prolong it even with a couple of seconds. IMPOSSIBLE! The seminal discharge orgasm has already kidnapped all the chances of a walk through the Garden of Eden, and it also left you without the fundamental potential that could have sustained you in endeavoring a new attempt. For ordinary couples with lightning short orgasms, the prospect of a prolonged, ecstatic orgasm, resembles a SF scenario.
I admit mitigating circumstances apply! The noise is more or less everywhere around you: the screaming commercials, the TVs that almost topple the noise of traffic. With all the disruption, how could you hear subtle suggestions from within, messages full of harmony that try to surface, especially when you make love?
Becoming the blessed owner of multiple orgasms every time you make love, is not the easiest thing in the world, but still you’re firmly committed to go for it. You start your journey. The first thing that prevents you from achieving this miraculous objective is your own instinct. Whether you like it or not, you were born in a world that has an obsession to ejaculate. Only when you succeed to free your mind from this fixation, will you be able to replace the instinctual habits with the refined and conscious perception of erotic pleasure.
And that’s not all. There’s another secret. So secret that although it’s in plain sight, almost no one notices it. It may seem insignificant, and yet it is not at all like that. It’s kind of a small wedge that can wreck a big truck. Without this important secret your multiple orgasms will have to wait long and well.
The Orgasm And Ejaculation Are NOT Siamese Twins! They’re not even kindred!
Tantric texts, as well as recent sexology research have shown that orgasm is not associated with ejaculation.
A genius scientific demonstration through its simplicity will convince even the most skeptical of the skeptics of this truth. Rats with electrodes connected to their pleasure centers will choose orgasm over food thousands of times per day. Beyond its neurological and psychological value, the experiment showed that orgasm is not limited to waves of contractions of muscles in the genital area (as many are tempted to believe), but is a complex phenomenon in the cerebral cortex.
While orgasm is a process that occurs in the brain and involves changes in the whole being, acceleration of the heart rate and even respiratory, contractions in the pelvic area, etc., the ejaculation is just a simple reflex that occurs at the base of the spine, an involuntary muscle spasm whose only result is the release of sperm.
The conclusion is simple: orgasm and ejaculation are by no means Siamese twins.
But how to keep the orgasm and ditch ejaculation… in the next article.
Hermina
