If you can have one, you can have more. And not just during your entire lifespan, but also during one single lovemaking encounter.
“Multiple orgasm”, it sounds good, aint’t it? But there’s something you should know: it is of two kinds. In the first one- sequential- orgasms are quite close to one another, they occur at an interval of 2-10 minutes. The excitation subdues after one orgasm, only to increase again for the second one. It’s just as if you were in the middle of the sea – here comes a wave, lifting you, then taking you down, then the second one comes, and so on.
The second type of orgasms is the serial one. Orgasms occur one after the other, rather fast, with a few seconds between them. Just like a prolonged earthquake.
Here are a few steps to take if you want to prepare yourself for a multi-layered type of pleasure.
1. Believe in miracles.
Even if it has never occurred to you so far you can have orgasms, one after the other. Now you know it’s possible. Relax, and don’t stop after the first one. It’s your inner condition that is crucial. Open yourself to the no-limit experience. Firmly opt for yet another one. Or maybe two…Or maybe…ninety-two. If you feel your genital area becomes much too sensitive after one orgasm, you should wait for about 10-15 seconds before the stimulation starts again.
2. Oral lovemaking.
It could be the most delightful foreplay for the multiple ecstasies. A special technique you should recommend your lover is the flame: the lover imagines the tip of his tongue is a little flame he takes above and below your clit, and by moving it to and from takes you to the top. If you want to gently pass it on to your lover, all you have to do is print this page and put it somewhere where he cannot miss it…you could place it under the TV remote, for instance.
3. Aim, shoot and hit the target.
And I think it’s clear what I mean by that: the G spot. If you don’t know where it is, you can find out. When you’re excited, lie down on your back and put a finger in your vagina. At about four centimeters on your vagina’s anterior wall you should be able to touch a coarse spot, the size of a small coin. Have you found it ?…Well, don’t worry if you haven’t. Call him, so that you can find it together. You might feel like you want a pee, if you stimulate the point for the first time. Yet such a sensation will soon be on the wane, and your pleasure will increase.
4. Be as ready as you can be.
The angle of your hips shapes the angle, as well as the depth your lover will penetrate you at. At this point, those little adjustments can bring crucial changes to your lovemaking. You can use a pillow to raise your buttocks. Or you can ask him, in your own very special way, to penetrate you from the behind.
5. A new G spot?
It looks like it. Deep inside you, near the cervix, there’s another point that can no longer wait for you to touch it. If you want to feel it, when you’re in the missionary position, you should pull your feet upwards, towards the ears, and retract your abdomen. These movements should enable your lover to make a deep, deep, deep penetration.
6. The pubococcigian muscle.
Don’t worry; you don’t have to remember its name. This muscle contracts when you have an orgasm or when you stop urinating. The more trained the muscle is, the more intense your orgasm will be. The Kegel exercises tonify the muscles: for three seconds, contract the muscles that are activated when you stop urinating, then relax your muscles, for three seconds. Repeat the exercise 10 times, tree tiea a day. Then gradually increase the number of contractions per series, up to 50. You can even make these contractions during lovemaking – much to the delight of your lover.
7. I know, I know, I know…
faking an orgasm is out of the question for the two of you… but playing upon it a bit has always been fascinating. And, surprise! Faking an orgasm may lead to having a real one. Your moans, the sound of your breath, the sudden contraction and relaxation of the pelvic muscles, all these will send their signal to the brain: ”time has come for another orgasm!”
8. Play with your own…tip zones.
And by that I don’t mean the “tips” of your tits” (yet on second thoughts…) What we have here is a technique you can use to change the excitation pattern of your body. Imagine a 1 to 10 “ hot” scale. 2 or 3 area soft breeze: 4 or 5 means a slight excitation. At 8 your heart pounds, your breath is heavy and you feel you’re riding a wave. Good. Go to 4 or 5, and then stop. Hold on for a few seconds, and then start it all over again. Go to 6 and then stop. Then to 7 or 8. The technique will take you from one pleasure tidal wave to another leading you up to a 15-grade typhoon.
If your first time is a misfire, don’t stop and keep on doing it. At any rate, women seem to be increasingly ”prone” to having a multiple orgasms as they’re nearing 30. But no matter what your age is, don’t worry too much when it comes to the number of orgasms- the eventual aim of a love meeting is the shared joy of the souls and voluptuousness. And it’s worth enjoying that, every single minute of your life.