Winter is not like the summer, nor is a man like a woman. He comes from Mars. She’s on Venus. Who could understand her? Neither you nor the other representatives of the stronger sex will succeed there. When she has a headache, it means she’s tired. If, on the other hand, you have a headache, you certainly don’t love her anymore. Do you want to make love often? You are obsessed. Don’t have time, or aren’t exactly in the mood to? You must be having someone else. You present her some flowers, you want something. But if you don’t, you’re insensitive.
This is also the reason why the road from loneliness towards the much desired couple stretches sometimes over galactic distances.
What can you do? The secret is to allow the other person to be inside you. Unrestricted. The human being is an unfathomable mystery. No matter how deep inside you may go, it will be endless. You quickly get bored only because you limit yourself to merely skim the periphery: its individuality.
Where to start? Let go of pipe dreaming. More precisely: ruminating projections. See her as she really is. Not the way you want her to be. She won’t be that anyway. And yes. You are perfectly right. Not you men, but we women are much more prone to dreaming. Well, projecting.
We don’t want Prince Charming or his white horse anymore. It’s obsolete. Quaint. A simple upgrade saves the situation and reconnects us with the new IT times. So here we are dreaming of a big, blond, beautiful and … of course, super erotic ET. Which takes us back to his unpolluted planet. Much more evolved too. In a two-seater spaceship. The last interplanetary roar. And there, wherever that may be, we will live happily ever after. And he, the alien, won’t be interested in any other female creatures. Except for us, of course.
But until when we hit the galaxy highways, the roads around here are closer. Earthly. Solid. Real. As for the men, they may not be as blond and not as big, but they certainly have something else to offer. Precious to our happiness and fulfillment. As women, as well as human beings.
You have a certain opinion about love. Just like all of us. But you get to really know her, only if you manage to free her from all the ideas that you think would define her. Only then will you realize that it, LOVE is beyond everything, a factual matter of Being. Its mysterious and eternal light.
(see the differences from another perspective here)
Hermina
